I didn’t really know how to answer this but I really wanted to help you so here is the best thing I could find
There is a popular belief that ‘communication’ is the most important thing in a relationship.
When couples come to counselling they often say their problem is with ‘communication’. And the thing they want to fix about their relationship is their ‘communication’. And if only they could ‘communicate’ everything would be so much better between them.
However, often communication isn't really the cause of their problems.
Connection is often the most important thing in a relationship
Yes, communication is important, but it’s not always the most important thing. The most important thing is often actually connection. Connection is that feeling of being on the same team, of understanding each other, that inexplicable warm happy feeling of being in love and together.
This concept is really important to get our heads around, because so often it’s the key issue we are really fighting about.
Hope I helped. : )
